Can you believe that majority of new (or old!) moms are doing things that they think are helping their milk supply, but are actually hurting? Myself included, I had no idea! It's unbelievably common.
Flanges are not one size fits all, you can't just crank the pump up to 12, and those magic pills might be doing the opposite of their intention!
In this post I will cover some common mistakes, issues, and misconceptions that may result in decreased milk supply, rather than the desired increase!
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I could not believe how many things that I was doing that actually took chunks out of my milk supply. Keep in mind I exclusively pumped, so I don't have any personal experience with nursing or combo between nursing and pumping.
Did you know that all those photos you see online of filled-to-the-brim pump bottles are NOT what a regular pump session looks like? In fact, they're extremely abnormal. I found that pumping an ounce per side per hour is even a large oversupply for a single baby. So for example if you pump every 2 hours, and see your pump session is yielding 4 ounces in total, you'd be producing 48 ounces a day?!
Do you know how much the average baby eats in a day? Far less than that! I've heard they eat around an ounce an hour (past the newborn phase of course) when they're not having growth spurts or anything.
Keep in mind that ounces add up, even though they don't look like much when you're pumping into a 6 or more ounce capacity bottle.
Compare that to how much a baby eats during the first month.. you'll feel a lot better about it.
Between the ages of 1-6 months, breastfed babies will typically drink on average 25 ounces (750ml) of milk per day. So producing an ounce per hour is right about on par with that.. can you believe that?! If you're producing more than baby eats, it's considered an oversupply! And to think it doesn't look like much in the bottles.
Those photos you see online with full pump bottles, that's almost NEVER a regular session! (with the exclusion of women with a huge oversupply)
On the left is what I pump first thing in the morning after going a 10 hour gap without pumping. I only do this because I've had a regulated supply for many many months, and eased into that amount of hourly gap. I do not recommend anyone to try going that long when you're a newer pumper. (first 12 weeks or so).
On the right is what I produce if I pump more often, like every 2 or 3 hours. It looks like nothing in those huge bottles! If you do the math, 60ml every 2 hours, if you pump that literally 12 times a day, is 48 ounces! For a baby drinking 25 in a day, you could feed two of them. Your ounces add up!
Not pumping often enough
Milk is produced on a supply and demand basis. You will replace what you remove, and what's left unused is taken as a sign that you didn't need it.
If you aren't pumping as often as baby feeds, or just pumping "whenever you feel full", you're telling your body that you don't need as much milk and your body will read this as a sign to produce less. I cannot believe how many moms tell me they're pumping 5 times a day at 2 weeks postpartum, and they don't understand why they're only putting out 18 ounces a day.
You have to pump each time baby feeds, as a signal for your body to replace what was just eaten. You can even pump more than that to ask for more milk.
A "power pump" is a handy trick used by lots of moms to essentially beg your body for more milk.
Here's an infographic on power pumping from my friends over at Legendairy Milk -
Not pumping long enough
You have to be very sure to pump until empty (or longer, to ask your body for more milk) almost every single time.
Leaving behind milk will not only tell your body you didn't need it, but can pave the way for clogs to develop, which can turn into mastitis.
I have typically never pumped less than 20 minutes. When my baby was born, I pumped every 2 hours for 20 minutes each time. Then I moved to every 3 hours, 30 minutes each time, to every 4 hours 40 minutes each time, and my first pump of the day now after sleeping all night is typically an hour. (I'm 9 months postpartum right now when this is first published)
Everyone has different "times to empty" but typically that means your breasts are feeling softer, and no more milk comes out for a few minutes during pumping. This can be mistaken for the time between letdowns, so I like to give myself quite a bit of time to be sure. I've had letdowns as far apart as 15 minutes!
Pumping with the wrong parts or settings
If you use the wrong sized flanges, you'll experience a few things. None of them good!
First will be pain, from either too small or too large. If they're too small, your entire nipple doesn't fit into the flange and it may get blisters, cuts, "road rash", and in turn will not be able to properly remove milk. If they're too large, too much of the areola will get sucked in, swell up, and constrict the "tubes" where milk flows through and you won't be able to properly remove milk.
How to measure? Use either a printable ruler like my free one here, or purchase a silicone/plastic ruler like this one here. I recommend measuring before pumping, especially if you've been pumping with a large size that's caused swelling to your nipples.
On top of that, it HURTS to use the wrong size, and when you're in pain, you can't relax and have a proper milk let down. Milk let down is best when you're relaxed. If you're gripping the sides of the chair with white knuckles because of how hard those flanges are sucking your soul out, there's no way you can relax.
You need to measure your nipples to ensure the correct flange fit. Did you know, the standard flanges that come in the box with pumps, are typically NOT the correct size? According to my friends at Pumpables, 17mm is the most common size. In pump boxes, you typically receive a 24mm and a 28mm. Using a flange almost 10mm too big is crazy!
Your nipple size may change, by the way. In a matter of three months, I went from 19mm to 17mm to 15mm!
A note on these rulers - Someone posted in one of the groups I'm in asking if these two measured the same. A commenter insisted that they did not, that pumpables was 2-3mm larger than others. I feel that this person may have printed the pumpables ruler in an image format rather than the PDF which is the correct size. As you can see, they only have 3 common measurements- all of which are exactly identical. Both of these are accurate measuring tools.
Did you know there are soft, silicone flanges out there? I couldn't believe how good it felt to try those for the first time. Especially if you have elastic nipples, silicone flanges are a lifesaver. I have used and enjoyed both the Pumpables Liquid Shields and the Lacteck Babymotion flanges.
Note: if you purchase either of these, be sure you have the full setup to use them.
For Pumpables that would be the Liquid Shield Kit (this is one piece, be sure to get two! total cost for both is about $60)
For Lacteck that would be an adapter piece that fits onto whatever brand pump you're using (I purchased a maymom adapter piece to fit my Spectra parts) Update October 2022- I have been using and loving the PumpinPal XS flanges (about 15mm). These also require that maymom adapter and a special collar piece (pumpinpal has them).
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Use the code PUMP4OFF for $4 off of a set!
More suction does NOT equal more milk.
I cannot believe I've seen people genuinely recommend to "work up to the strongest suction on your pump." No way! Do not do that! I've used 5 or 6 as the highest level, and it works perfectly fine each time.
Using too high of suction can cause damage to your nipples, make them swell, disrupt milk flow, and just hurt!
Using too low can cause emptying to take longer, be less efficient, and maybe leave milk behind as well. Remember what I said about milk left behind?
You want to have it "as high as is comfortable", according to a few moms I've spoken to. If it starts to hurt, turn it back down. Out of 12 total suction levels on spectra, 6 is still very powerful for me.
Using the wrong kind of pump
As convenient and amazing as wearable pumps are, they are not recommended for full time, primary use. Some women can get away with using them alone, and get their full output daily. Unfortunately that's not always the case, and most of the time these wearable pumps (especially the super cheap ones you can find on Amazon) don't empty or work efficiently, which will send your body the message that there's milk leftover, and it's not needed.
As I mentioned before, unused milk is a message to the body that you need LESS milk produced.
Wearable pumps are a great option to have, for occasional use. I personally got a few pairs of cups (to plug into my main pump) and I purchased the Imani I2 wearable pumps from Legendairy milk (which worked decent about half the time I found) and I was gifted an Elvie Stride that I couldn't get to work properly, even trying just the cups with my regular pump. I found the Legendairy milk cups to be decent some of the time as well, but not every time. It was truly so frustrating.
Wall plug pumps are typically seen as the most "powerful" and "beefy" pumps out there, which I can mostly agree with. However, I know very few moms who can afford to sit plugged in for hours a day. So to survive, we have to go with portable options.
There are small, portable pumps that have saved countless pumping journeys due to their convenience and providing the ability to pump while walking, cleaning, driving, even using the bathroom.
I personally have used the Pumpables Genie Advanced as my primary pump for over half a year, and it does the job just as well as my wall plug Spectra Synergy Gold (which cost twice as much, mind you). I recommend this pump to nearly every mom I speak to! I couldn't have kept pumping 8 times a day without it. I love how affordable it is compared to other big brands. I've used it waaaay more than the Spectra.
Here's a side by side comparison of my two main breast pumps:
Wearable collection cups are also a great option to have, but not for regular use.
Wearable collection cups are a portable pumping accessory, very discreet, but still have tubing. Typically this can be tucked into your shirt to be out of the way.
I personally use the Legendairy Milk Collection Cups from time to time, like when we drive somewhere and I have to pump in the car. Whole flange kits get caught on the seatbelt, and I don't like people driving next to us and getting a show!
They are a wonderful option to have when you need to clean the house without getting caught on every doorknob or want to go out of the house and not have the world looking at your nipples!
You can even carry your baby around easier while wearing these compared to standard flange kits. I've carried both of my kids (3 year old and 9 month old) to the bathtub and back while pumping.
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Update October 2022- the Imani i2 cups (minus the motors) have a lot better suction in my opinion. See my reel on that here
You're relying on too many magic pills
There are so many supplements out there that promise to increase milk supply.
We've all seen those advertisements with 8 ounce milk bottles next to a 2 ounce bottle stating "My milk supply went from this to this overnight!"
Yeah, that's usually a cash grab. Do your research! Read reviews of these products on websites OTHER than the ones they're listed on.
Some of them certainly work for some women, and some of them do not. Personally I can use moringa, and eat lactation cookies with brewers yeast and oatmeal and see a rise in milk supply. Not gallons, of course, but a noticeable difference.
If I take fenugreek, one of the most popular supplements, my supply is cut nearly in half. Some supplements have adverse effects on supply, and that's normal. Not everything works for everyone. IF YOU HAVE A THYROID CONDITION, fenugreek can cause trouble for you! A lot of women who see a decrease from fenugreek have a thyroid condition. I do not, at least not that has been diagnosed.
Don't load up on every promising supplement on the market thinking you're gonna pump 8 ounce sessions 7 times a day! Try them one at a time, and see which ones do what to your supply.
That said, there are lots of lactogenic foods out there that are proven (in many cases) to increase milk supply in both animals and humans. Barley, for example, is high in beta glucan, which increases the production and circulation of prolactin, which can in turn increase milk production.
Your parts are old or wearing out
Every part that comes with your pump that's soft or rubber will need to be replaced at some point. Some more often than others.
When they begin to wear out and lose their "crispiness" as I like to call it, the suction will decrease, remove less milk, and you'll produce less milk.
I advise moms to keep a spare of EVERY part of your pump at ALL TIMES. It'll be just your luck that your duckbill gets dropped in the garbage disposal, or the cat gets your tubing, and you're outta luck until the Amazon Prime Fairy can drop you a new one in two days.
In my personal experience, this is how often I typically find that I need to replace something. Note: the "silicone flange" I refer to is something like a pumpables liquid insert- lacteck and pumping pals last way longer.
You're not eating or drinking enough
Did you know that breastfeeding burns extra calories? I am 100% convinced that doesn't help us lose any weight, but instead we starve like we haven't eaten in days.
To replace that extra burn, you have to eat a little more than a non breastfeeding person. Typically it's only 500-800 calories, but it differs from person to person based on body type and mass.
The Lactation Nutritionalist has a neat calculator that tells you how many calories you need to consume to maintain milk supply, lose weight, or maintain weight.
If you're not keeping up enough calories, you can't produce as much milk. The same goes for staying hydrated.
I like to aim to drink half of my body weight in ounces of water per day, which equals about 70 ounces, or about 4 and a half regular sized water bottles. But just like the hunger, I'm seemingly constantly parched and am guzzling more than that.
Make sure you don't overdo the water though, you can cover up your natural feeling of hunger and then in turn not consume enough calories!
I also have one electrolyte beverage a day, people call Bodyarmor/gatorade and coconut water "milk supply increasers" but really you're just likely lacking in electrolytes and dehydrated. When fully hydrated and your electrolytes topped up, you can produce the proper amount of milk your body is able to.
I read before that "to lose weight breastfeeding, you should try to just make sure you're eating full meals with real foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean meats". But that's much easier said than done, and prepackaged foods often find their way into a busy mom's mouth!
You're too stressed
Believe it or not, stress and relaxation both play a part in milk production.
I'll sum it up in a brief explanation, which may not be 100% scientifically accurate but it's the way I remember it being explained to me.
When you relax, such as during sleep, your body produces a hormone called prolactin. This hormone not only produces milk but aids in letdowns, which is why it's so highly encouraged to "relax" when you're pumping. Thinking of waterfalls, looking at pictures of your baby, etc. Oxytocin, the happiness hormone, also plays a big part in milk letdown. A rush of oxytocin causes muscles in the breast to contract and squeeze milk out of the glands and ducts.
When you're stressed, anxious, scared, etc you can't get a proper letdown.
"Stress is the No. 1 killer of breastmilk supply, especially in the first few weeks after delivery. Between lack of sleep and adjusting to the baby’s schedule, rising levels of certain hormones such as cortisol can dramatically reduce your milk supply. I’ve seen women who, within 24 hours, have gone from having an ample milk supply to literally none due to stress." via Shivani Patel, MD, OBGYN
If I know I'm "about to be stressed out"- for example if everyone is screaming, and my pump alarm goes off, I'd sooner push my pump a bit than start trying to pump while my toddler is screaming "BINGO HAD A DOG, AND BINGO WAS HIS NAME-O! B, I, N, T, O, B, I, N, T, O" while the baby is crawling after her trying to get whatever she's holding, and the cat is meowing for food, and I'm hungry!
I always do my very best to pump in the most relaxing setting, otherwise in my brain it feels like I'm wasting my time trying to pump when I can't do it to the best of my ability.
During pumping I like to do something to help keep me relaxed, such as eat a favorite snack or watch a Netflix show, if I'm able to. I'm actually pumping right now as I'm typing this, which is something else I enjoy doing, so I feel plenty relaxed. The kids have wandered off to find their dad in the next room, so there's no misspelled bingo action happening right now.
Another issue I see lots of moms have relating to stress, is stressing over how much milk they think they're not making. My advice: cover the bottles. I used baby socks for that, they work great.
Don't sit there watching drips, thinking "oh no, it's not enough it's not enough!". You could hurt your supply that way!
Learn to, in a way, accept what's there and don't worry about it. You may find that your body cooperates more that way.
You're taking medications that tank your supply
Are you taking birth control with estrogen? Estrogen/progesterone may destroy your milk supply- this is actually a common way that some moms will find out they're expecting again. When you get pregnant, your estrogen levels rise and your milk supply lowers. A LOT. Benadryl, Sudafed, anything meant to dry up mucous membranes may also be detrimental to milk production.
When I had my second baby, I was covid positive and I had been given Sudafed for congestion.
What colostrum? No one told me until after I was given this medication that my milk would suffer!
I feel that this heavily contributed to her needing to be formula fed and then not being able to latch properly, resulting in our exclusive pumping journey.
Always double check prescription or non prescription medications before taking them, they may be either not safe for breastfeeding or may reduce your supply to drops! A quick google or call to the OBGYN could save you a ton of headache.
You're not sleeping enough
Prolactin, one of the milk making hormones, is produced the most while you sleep. So, if you're not sleeping enough, chances are you're not producing enough prolactin.
Sleep is extremely crucial not only in milk production, but in sanity! You can't run on fumes, let alone take care of the house, the kids, work, etc.
As a side note, your pump sessions will almost always have different amounts. Especially towards the end of the day, as prolactin levels taper out, so does the milk output. Don't worry when your last pump of the day is far less than the first, that's completely normal!